We are getting married
November 14, 2026
Etre Farms · St. Joseph, Michigan
— days to go
We are getting married
November 14, 2026
Etre Farms · St. Joseph, Michigan
— days to go
November 14, 2026
All times Eastern (ET)
3:30 PM ET
Grab a drink, leave us a message in our audio guestbook, and find a seat.
4:00 PM ET
Promptly at four — we're planning an outdoor ceremony, weather permitting. Cocktails to follow.
6:00 PM ET
Into the ballroom for dinner, toasts, and a happy tear or two.
7:00 PM ET
Something sweet before the floor opens.
8:00 PM ET
The floor opens — stay till late.
Shuttle Schedule
Complimentary shuttles run between the Cinema Way hotels and Etre Farms.
Every pickup and drop-off is at 1300 Cinema Way, Benton Harbor, MI 49022 — centrally located among all three hotel blocks.
The 2:10 shuttle is reserved for extended Young and Penland family for pre-ceremony photos. Everyone else, hop on the 2:50 or 3:30. Last call is 3:30; miss it and you're on your own to reach the farm.
After 11:30, shuttles loop roughly every half hour until the last song.
An Adults-Only Celebration
21+
The Dress Code
The dress code fits in two words: wear black. Come as your sharpest self — a suit, a dress, a jumpsuit, separates — whatever makes you feel wonderful, as long as it's black. Here is some inspiration.
Plan Your Trip
Nearest Airports
We've reserved room blocks at three hotels in St. Joseph and will run a complimentary shuttle to and from these hotels on the wedding day.
The Hotel Blocks & Etre Farms
Getting Around
We're providing a complimentary shuttle to and from the hotel blocks above on the wedding day. You're welcome to stay elsewhere, but transportation is on your own if you're not traveling to and from one of the blocks.
Ride-share (Uber & Lyft) is available in the area, though availability can be limited in the off-season — staying in a block and riding the shuttle is the easiest way to get there and back.
Exact pickup and return times are on the Itinerary page.
Prefer a home rental, or want more options? Etre Farms keeps a list of recommended places to stay near the venue.
Etre Farms Recommended RentalsParking
Ample parking is available at the venue. You're welcome to leave your car overnight — just be sure to pick it up by 10 AM ET the next morning.
Weather
Historically, November 14 in St. Joseph has averaged a high near 48°F and a low around 34°F, with last year being 65°F and sunny! Check back here for the live forecast as the day gets closer, but please plan attire accordingly.
The Big Day
Thank you for your RSVP — we can't wait to celebrate with you. Here's the countdown until we say “I do.”
November 14, 2026
A quick note
Traveling in on Friday? Come kick off the celebrations with us at Silver Harbor Brewing. See the Night Before tab for all the details.
We've updated our shuttle schedule. Check the new pickup times on the shuttle schedule.